As a library vendor/salesman/person who wants money from the library, this is not the way to charm me:
Him: "So you're the new boss, huh? You took over from that guy?"
Me: "Yes, I'm the interim director. May I help you?"
Him: "Well, you're just gonna be one busy little girl trying to run that big ole place by yourself, ain't ya?"
Me: *silently bites her tongue and fumes at the "little girl" comment*